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Read Harder Task #11: Read a Book with an Asexual and / or Aromantic Main Character

Ever wondered what that all-important A in LGBTQIA stands for? Well, now you don’t have to, because A is for Asexual and Aromantic. If those terms are entirely new to you, they refer to people who experience no to little sexual and/or romantic attraction. There’s a spectrum, with some people identifying as demisexual or gray-ace feeling attraction after getting to know someone. And, of course, as with any sexuality, there’s a lot of nuance and variation in people’s experiences and how they would describe it. But there’s a very basic introduction for anyone who needs it.

Why should you read a book with a main character on the asexual or aromantic spectrum, you may ask? Well, in addition to the fact that many of these books are just really dang good, ace and aro rep is far less common in fiction than a lot of other LGBTQ representation so you might not be familiar with it. And whether you’re looking to be seen or trying to learn about new perspective and experiences, reading books with ace / aro representation is important.

All of these books include main characters on the asexual or aromantic spectrum. And, much like in real life, each of their experiences with their sexuality and romantic attraction is different. From teens and young adults questioning their feelings for the first time to out and proud asexual adults trying to find romance, these books are full of all the ace and aro feels.

Young Adult

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Summer Bird Blue by Akemi Dawn Bowman

In this novel about grief and recovery, a girl who has recently lost her younger sister is sent away to live with an aunt in Hawaii as her mother recovers from the loss of her daughter. Rumi can’t imagine ever picking up a guitar again, especially not with the last song she and Lea were working on unfinished. But she finds help in the most surprising of places–a surfer boy next door and an elderly neighbor who succumbed to his own grief long ago. Slowly, Rumi begins to realize that letting music back into her life might actually be the only way to heal.

Though sexuality isn’t the primary focus of this book, it is made clear that Rumi falls somewhere on the asexual and aromantic spectrums.

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Loveless by Alice Oseman

This is a lovely book about a teenager struggling to figure out her identity in her first year of college. Why does fanfic-obsessed Georgia find romance so tricky when for everyone else it seems so effortless? She’s always wanted love, but with new terms being thrown at her like asexual and aromatic, she’s beginning to fear that might not be in the cards. But is it possible she’s just been looking for all the wrong things in all the wrong places? The author of Heartstopper and Radio Silence crafts a heartwarming story of identity and the many forms of love.

Speculative Fiction

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Firebreak by Nicole Kornher-Stace

In a corporate -un future America, Mallory makes ends meet by streaming a popular VR war game. The company controls everything, from the water she drinks to the very game that is her livelihood; but when she discovers a horrifying secret behind the origin of the celebrity super soldiers in virtual reality, she knows she has to do something about it, even if it brings the world—and the wrath of corporate America—crashing down on her.

Mallory is implicitly depicted as aro / ace as confirmed by the author.

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Elatsoe by Darcie Little Badger

This wonderful YA novel explores a slightly different, slightly more magical America, where a Lipan Apache girl with the ability to raise the ghosts of dead animals searches for answers about the death of her cousin alongside her best friend. And it’s particularly wonderful to see a YA novel about an ace teen with a male friend who understands and respects her sexuality.

Adult Romance

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It’s Always Been You by Elin Annalise

Courtney Davenport runs a phone service for fellow asexuals worried about coming out. When her sworn enemy phones the helpline, Courtney is totally thrown for a loop. Courtney and Sophie grew up together in a boarding school that always pitted them against each other. And now Sophie is coming out to Courtney, not knowing it’s her on the other side of the phone. Even worse, she’s apparently moving into the apartment next door. After trying to scare Sophie away by making her apartment seem haunted, the two are roped into a reality-style TV game show playing off of their rivalry. The two of them just can’t seem to get away from each other, but Courtney’s beginning to wonder if that’s such a bad thing. After all, love isn’t always that far from hate.

This book does include a good bit of acephobia, but also a lot of intro to asexuality considering one of the main characters is running an ace helpline. So just keep all that in mind going into reading it.

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The Charm Offensive by Alison Cochrun

Charlie is an unlikely contestant for a dating show. He’s closed, distant, and doesn’t believe in love. It’s all producer Dev Deshpande do to even get him to talk to the twenty women he’s supposed to be romancing. The more he tries to get Charlie to open up on TV, the more the two of them connect behind the scenes. But this is reality TV, and Dev isn’t the one Charlie’s supposed to be falling in love with.

This adorable rom-com features a demisexual lead falling for a gay man.

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The Romantic Agenda by Claire Kann (April 2022)

This year Claire Kann, the author of Let’s Talk about Love and If It Makes You Happy, is gracing us with an adult romance novel with ace representation and this one includes not only an unabashedly asexual protagonist, but A Midsummer Night’s Dream-level complicated love quadrangle, and fake dating—all set on a weekend getaway. Sounds perfectly dreamy to me.

More Ace / Aro Book Recs

I hope some of these ace / aro books connect with you or bring you a new perspective on romance. Happy reading, Riot Readers!

Click here for the full Read Harder 2022 task list, and for previous recommendations, click here.