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My friend told me she went to thee best sounding queer party this past weekend in Chicago. Meanwhile, I stayed home and read books, which was obviously fabulous, but also had me wondering if I should get out more. But, then I think about how… scary outside is. So I just ended up settling for living vicariously through her instagram *cries in hermit*. Fun!
Let’s get into some queer reads for Pride Month (and beyond!), shall we?
Nibbles and Sips
The recipe (YouTube or website) I have to share with you today is super low key and easy. It’s actually another TikTok hack that I really like. You see, as much as I love slow-cooked ramen, I don’t always have slow-cooked-ramen-money, so this instant ramen hack comes in clutch.
It’s essentially just taking your instant ramen of choice (bonus points if it’s spicy!) and boiling the noodles according to instructions (three minutes, usually). Then, in the serving bowl, mix one egg, minced garlic, the seasoning packet, and a generous tablespoon of kewpie mayo. Once the noodles are done, add a little of the hot water from the pot into the mixture and stir. Add and stir a little more until everything is mixed well. Y’all, it’s so good. The richness of the broth really rivals that of a legit ramen shop, and it would go perfectly with lots of topingss (spinach, eggs, corn, mushrooms, etc.). Get your life with this ramen recipe!
A Few New Queer Reads
There are so many wonderful sounding new queer releases that it can be low-key hard to keep up these days! Here are just a few that stood out to me to read sooner rather than later.
Sara and Emilie both come from dysfunctional families and have both been running away from something. Sara from her home at 16 after someone close to her mysteriously died. Emilie, on the other hand, has been eschewing her Creole heritage in order to pass for white. Both also find themselves in popular L.A. restaurant Yerba Buena where they experience an intense and immediate chemistry. To fully realize whatever feelings could be there, though, they must first reckon with their pasts and heal their trauma.
Book club bonus: It can be easy to establish unhealthy patterns and get trapped in them, effectively making them a part of everyday life. In what surprising ways were Emilie and Sara’s lives influenced by their familial trauma?
This collection of stories celebrates queerness in all its fun, funny, dark, and complex glory. Amongst these stories is one about how a lesbian comic artist and her girlfriend decide to have a baby and get a few surprises along the way. Another follows a trans teen who has a big following on YouTube for sharing his views on things affecting queer people. Conklin’s writing is nuanced and tender enough to cover heavy topics like child abuse and s*xual assault without making the collection too trauma-centered.
Book club bonus: The blurb of this book mentions how Conklin includes an “experience that’s not typically represented: liminal or uncertain identities.” So much of human experience lies on a spectrum and many of us understand how nuanced and complex we can be. Why then, do you think we still tend to view things as either/or? Why don’t we look more at these liminal identities?
I mentioned this in the other newsletter I write, but wanted to mention this one here as well. I mean, the cover alone lives in my head. It pays no rent, no utilities, no nothing! In the book, Luli Wei is a Chinese American girl coming up during the golden age of Hollywood looking to make it big. When faced with the limited kinds of roles offered to Asian women, she’s the kind of girl who’s rather play a monster than a stereotype. And a monster she plays. Thing is, as she learns more about the darkness that goes on behind the scenes, she may end up more than just playing a monster to become successful. Vo casts her usual spell of dreamy prose and subtle magic in this historical novel.
Book club bonus: Do the ends justify the means? Do you think Luli’s actions were justified or even understandable when everything was said and done?
Brown Neon by Raquel Gutiérrez (June 7)
This is described as “part butch memoir, part ekphrastic travel diary,” so right off the bat, we can see it’s spicy in all the right ways. With this debut essay collection, poet and educator Gutiérrez reckons with physical space and how it influences, and is influenced, by art and love. Displacement across Mexico and the Southwestern region of the U.S. is mapped, just as Gutiérrez shows the etched stories across their own body. This reminds me a bit of Postcolonial Love Poem by Natalie Diaz.
Book club bonus: As someone who grew up in the U.S., I feel like physical space isn’t something that gets tied to the things Gutiérrez ties it to. It’s interesting because so much of our culture is actually space-based— like property lines, state lines, gerrymandering, etc. What do you think of the role that space plays in different aspects of our lives and why do you think we don’t talk about it much?
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Suggestion Section
These Impossible Things is the June book Club Pick for Marie Claire magazine
Half-Blown Rose is June’s pick for the Barnes & Noble book club
Fun quiz alert: Which Book is the Title of Your Life Story?
Here’s a fab list of literary sub stacks of classic lit you can subscribe to
Here are some gadgets to add to your reading arsenal (or to gift!)
I hope this newsletter found you well, and as always, thanks for hanging out! If you have any comments or just want to connect, send an email to erica@riotnewmedia.com or holla at me on Twitter @erica_eze_. You can also catch me talking more mess in the new In Reading Color newsletter as well as chattin’ with my new cohost Tirzah Price on the Hey YA podcast.
Until next week,
-E